Relationships

[WaluigiTime64]

I still think that relationships at such a young age are hardly ever worth it. The way I see it, it just steals your time, energy and potentially money with no clear benefit to you. But maybe that's just me. I personally wouldn't be going out and seeking out a relationship when I'm 15.

Make sure you completely understand the reasons behind what you want to do before acting. But if you still think it's worth it then whatever, just go for it.

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Well, personally I don't want a relationship, because that's time, effort and the dreaded "socialising", but I guess a person can choose what they want to do. I just strongly advise that person to not get a relationship at a young age.

Also thanks to Dude for that wonderful image lol.

[cashwarrior1]

I still think that relationships at such a young age are hardly ever worth it. The way I see it, it just steals your time, energy and potentially money with no clear benefit to you. But maybe that's just me. I personally wouldn't be going out and seeking out a relationship when I'm 15.

Make sure you completely understand the reasons behind what you want to do before acting. But if you still think it's worth it then whatever, just go for it.

I originally was waiting for college to date anyone, but depression is changing that 

[Altissimo]

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[FireArrow]

What's the saying... you have to love yourself before you can love someone ele.

[cashwarrior1]

I feel like I'm not portraying my situation/thoughts correctly. If I were to take the time to do so, nobody would bother reading it

[Bubbles]

I mean sometimes it works to just write everything out whether or not it's understandable to anyone but you just so you can get it out and attempt to understand yourself

anyone who follows me on tumblr knows that i use this technique too often and my blog is mostly incomprehensible panicky text posts lmao but hey it works

[mikey]

Callback to my emo prose last winter.  I might actually have SAD thinking about it

[cashwarrior1]

I mean sometimes it works to just write everything out whether or not it's understandable to anyone but you just so you can get it out and attempt to understand yourself

Well, I guess you're right. Maybe I'll try doing that next time I have something, because I kinda lost the motivation to keep this going . I'm just settled on becoming closer with each of them, to be friends. Then, maybe in 2 years, I might ask them out. (I may want to ask them out, but I'm probably going to delay it for that long )

[mikey]

It might actually be a good idea to ask them out on dates.  Long term romantic relationships can cause trouble especially since this isn't the part of your life to be doing that.  But learning how to interact around the opposite sex is healthy.

[cashwarrior1]

I would do that except for the fact that I don't want to go into a relationship with the mindset of "Oh, this is just my first date", because that implies that I'm planning on breaking up. I'll talk to some of my other friends and try to see when they think I should ask them out before trying.

[mikey]

Date != "going steady"

[cashwarrior1]

Okay... what?

[mikey]

Oh for the love of...
Can a mod move this to "relationships"

[Dudeman]

Oh for the love of...
Can a mod move this to "relationships"

oh hey it actually worked

[Altissimo]

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