The Rant Thread/My Life Sucks Topic [Don't be pricks]

[SlowPokemon]

Okay things like "go" and "you need to go" aren't good because it's Nebbles's highly personal decision.

[Nebbles]

Well, today I ended up somehow going. Today is my sister's birthday so we were all gonna meet for brunch (her, me, my other sister and mom) and sister A calls my mom in hysterics saying oh the nurse won't talk to her it's bad oh no so my mom ends up taking me over to make sure sister A is fine. Yadda yadda I end up having to go to the room he's in and goddamn.

I felt NOTHING. Sister A is weeping next to me and I'm just standing there, uncomfortable and awkward and thinking about how much I did not want to be there. Sister B comes, my dad's sister comes too and they're asking the nurse all about it and god I just don't care I don't

So, there answers my question. I don't give a damn and visiting won't do anything for me.

[E. Gadd Industries]

Well, at least you found out what would happen.

[FireArrow]

Yeah, you're not obligated to feel anything. It's a more extreme version of forcing yourself to be friends with someone you don't like. Just don't.

[cashwarrior1]

Wow, everyone's like completely disregarding me today . First you guys don't acknowledge my post in "made mah day" (which happens too often for me to care about too much). Then Sara hasn't texted me at all. My siblings went out and got McDonalds and they didn't bother asking me if I wanted anything. I guess I'll just have to take action if I want something to happen

[SlowPokemon]

That's how the world works, you nut. Nothing "happens" to people. You have to put effort into things to see a result.

[cashwarrior1]

Ah, now I remember why I don't post in this thread. Nobody helps.

[mikey]

hey what you only waited 12 minutes
that's just slow being an sage 20 whatever year old, don't take it personally

[Latios212]

That was actually a piece of legitimately helpful advice though

[cashwarrior1]

I guess, sorry for being rude.

[braix]

That's simply just not how life works, at least for most people; you can't really expect eyes on you all the time.

[mikey]

"Oh that's horrible your siblings definitely should have gotten you something"
"I'm sure she'll text you tonight, she's probably been really busy"

[cashwarrior1]

Well, clearly I'm wrong here. Sorry for wasting your time.

[SlowPokemon]

Being passive aggressive is also not a great way to solve anything or get attention

Generally if you reach out to people they'll respond and give you the attention/display of interest that you want

Also sorry if I'm coming across like Noc said, I really don't want to be "sage high and mighty 20 year old dude" so slap me or something if I am

[cashwarrior1]

I guess whenever people try to help me out with something, they just keep slapping me with the truth and harsh tones and really, that doesn't help me. I feel like if people want to help me, they need to be kind and have sympathy.

Being passive aggressive is also not a great way to solve anything or get attention

Yeah, I'm trying to work on that but obviously it's not going too well. I'm trying to be more open about things, but I don't feel like I can trust anyone with what's on my mind. And those that I do trust, it takes me a while just to hint at it.