The Post Your Thoughts of the Moment Thread 2

[Pianist Da Sootopolis]

I feel melancholy.
I wish I was a better artist.
Why is it that none of my crushes ever like me back??
I get to see my best friend again tomorrow! We'll be discussing plans for the next few months, hopefully we can get it sorted out.

you are loved, sad bean

[Tobbeh99]

I feel melancholy.
I wish I was a better artist.
Why is it that none of my crushes ever like me back??
I get to see my best friend again tomorrow! We'll be discussing plans for the next few months, hopefully we can get it sorted out.

This sounds somewhat similar to me, but mine is different.
I feel melancholy.
I wish I was successful in music.
Why don't I have girlfriend, and haven't had anyone, but everyone else?
I don't talk about the things above with anybody. And I've lost a lot of friends in dumb conflicts, making me doubt in my self-confidence.

My own answers:
1) There's something wrong with me.
2) Everyone/the whole word is evil and against me.
3) I'm a lazy idiot
4)...umm fuck the government! (+random nonsense conspiracies rationalizing stuff)

Otherwise, hope you get better ZF. Your question-game is awesome!

[Sebastian]

1) There's something wrong with me.
2) Everyone/the whole world is evil and against me.
4)...umm fuck the government!

These are probably not true. Believe it or not, I was in a situation very similar to yours. I felt depressed, unsuccessful in music (I still feel that a lot, to be honest, lol...it's not easy being a music major), and lost without a girlfriend. I felt all these things are many years, but it does get better. Out of your list, being a "lazy idiot" is really the only thing you can fix yourself. I don't know you and I don't know if you're a lazy idiot or not, but if you believe that is what you are, then change that negative aspect of yourself.

[Dude]

Why don't I have girlfriend, and haven't had anyone, but everyone else?

Truly a mystery...

[Tobbeh99]

Truly a mystery...

Are you serious?

[Sebastian]

No, it's unnecessary sarcasm.

[Olimar12345]

No, it's unnecessary sarcasm.

Maybe on the surface level... but you know a good point could me made that the "why don't I have a girlfriend" complaint could be explained away by Tobbeh's very own post...

[Tobbeh99]

Maybe on the surface level... but you know a good point could me made that the "why don't I have a girlfriend" complaint could be explained away by Tobbeh's very own post...

Like how?

[Dude]

I feel so pissed of about that girl that I thought was interested in me. Obviously nothing happened. And I feel so pissed of getting dragged into a bunch of bullshit and nonsense because of her. So fucked up! You've just watched "Tobbe gets tricked into crazy dumb adventure part 2" yay ...

yeah Olimar, this would totally make a girl wet

[Olimar12345]

^this
(and I'm agreeing with you, dude)

[Tobbeh99]

Y I get it everything in my life is ruined. And you have done NOTHING in order to help or even care about me.

[Olimar12345]

I mean I was trying to help but being stubborn and only seeing the negative works too I guess.

[Altissimo]

it's hard to have a desire to help/care about someone who seems hellbent on not actually helping/caring for themselves

[Dude]

And you have done NOTHING in order to help or even care about me.

pretty sure we've given you advice and you honestly just threw it out immediately

[swimswamit]

Maybe on the surface level... but you know a good point could me made that the "why don't I have a girlfriend" complaint could be explained away by Tobbeh's very own post...

Like how?

I feel melancholy.
Why don't I have girlfriend, and haven't had anyone, but everyone else? 
I've lost a lot of friends in dumb conflicts, making me doubt in my self-confidence.
1) There's something wrong with me.
2) Everyone/the whole word is evil and against me.
3) I'm a lazy idiot
4)...umm fuck the government! (+random nonsense conspiracies rationalizing stuff)

#1 and 2 seem to be the biggest problems, and self-loathing doesn't help either. They probably want you to not pout and actually go out and work on yourself. The whole world is NOT against you, it's more a problem with you than everyone else. Find joy in whatever you do and don't focus so much on having a girlfriend. Just cause everyone has one doesn't mean you'll get one too.

You'll probably find someone in the future, don't lose too much sleep over it.